big ben's big wedding

Just a little personal background here. Ben Roethlisberger is getting married this summer to my cousin-in-law's (I don't know if that's actually a title) sister. So by marriage I'll be sort of, but not really be related to Big Ben. My cousins were invited to the wedding because they live in Pennsylvania and have actually had Ben over to their house. It's safe to say that my Steelers loving brothers and myself are extremely jealous